Kitten left home when she was 18 after a fight with her family over a boyfriend, and she wasn't welcome back, not even after the relationship ended. “They were talking shit about it, saying it wasn't a good thing to do.” But Kitten saw it differently; she saw a way out.
She wound up in a program for homeless youth and lived in a shelter. “I wondered how would my life be different if rather than leave a relationship with nothing, I left with more than I came into it with.” She signed up with Seeking Arrangement before she even left the shelter. She wants to become a choreographer, and the money has been really helpful.
And he knows he got off easy with that woman; there are worse and more humiliating scams in the sugar-dating zip code than just losing a few hundred bucks.
And she thinks of the money as a contribution a real boyfriend would make, just more.
What is so bad about formalizing the arrangement so that we can all just go home happy?